A working draft on the practical framework for donors navigating the tension between trust and stewardship when grantees don’t use funds as intended

Executive Summary

The Trust Paradox

Trust-based philanthropy promises more effective, equitable giving—but what happens when trust is broken? This guide provides a step-by-step framework for handling grant misuse while maintaining philanthropic values, protecting charitable assets, and preserving relationships where possible.

Key Insight

Trust and accountability are not mutually exclusive—measuring performance actually promotes trust and accountability, while helping both funders and grantees do their jobs better.

Understanding Trust-Based Philanthropy

 

What Is Trust-Based Philanthropy?

Trust-based philanthropy is a charitable approach that reimagines the relationships between donors, nonprofits and communities to rebalance power and decision making. It emphasizes partnership over paternalism, with six core practices:

  • Multi-year unrestricted funding
  • Doing homework upfront
  • Streamlined paperwork
  • Transparency
  • Soliciting feedback
  • Building relationships based on trust rather than compliance

The Promise and the Problem

The Promise

  • More effective grant making through authentic and loving partnerships
  • Reduced administrative burden on nonprofits

  • Greater equity and power-sharing in philanthropy

  • Stronger, more collaborative relationship

The Problem

When grantees misuse funds, donors face a difficult tension between their values-based approach and their legal obligations as stewards of charitable assets.

When Trust Breaks Down: Understanding Grant Misuse

Types of Grant Misuse

1. Intentional Fraud

  • Embezzlement of funds for personal use
  • False reporting about program activities
  • Using funds for non-charitable purposes

Note: Donors can take legal action against nonprofits that misuse restricted donations

3. Mission Drift

  • Using funds for charitable purposes but different from donor intent
  • Shifting organizational priorities without donor consultation
  • Responding to urgent needs that diverge from grant purpose

2. Honest Mistakes

  • Misunderstanding grant restrictions
  • Poor financial management systems
  • Inadequate staff training on grant compliance

4. Organizational Crisis

  • Financial distress leading to fund commingling
  • Leadership changes affecting program direction
  • External pressures forcing programmatic shifts

Legal Framework: Your Obligations as a Donor

Every charitable organization (and its Board) has a legal responsibility to help ensure that its funds are used only for charitable purposes. If a funder discovers its grants have been used for non-charitable purposes, the funder must pursue a return of funds or other corrective action as soon as the funder is aware of the issue.

Key Legal Principles:

  • Charitable Trust Doctrine: Grants create legal obligations for specific use
  • Contract Law: Grant agreements are legally binding contracts
  • Fiduciary Duty: Donors have obligations to charitable beneficiaries
  • Due Diligence: Reasonable efforts to ensure proper use required

A Step-by-Step Framework for Handling Grant Misuse

Phase 1: Assessment and Investigation

Days 1-14

STEP 1: Gather Facts

  • Talk it out – reach out and seek to understand
  • Document exactly what happened vs. what was supposed to happen
  • Review grant agreement terms and restrictions
  • Collect evidence (financial reports, communications, receipts)
  • Avoid jumping to conclusions about intent

STEP 2: Determine Severity

Low Risk: Minor deviation from intended use but still charitable
Medium Risk: Significant deviation that undermines grant purpose
High Risk: Non-charitable use, fraud, or embezzlement

STEP 3: Review Legal Obligations

  • Consult grant agreement remedies clauses
  • Assess state and federal legal requirements
  • Consider tax implications for both parties
  • Document your investigation process

Phase 2: Communication and Resolution

Days 15-45

STEP 4: Engage the Grantee

  • Approach with curiosity, not accusation
  • Share your concerns and ask for explanation
  • Listen to their perspective and circumstances
  • Give them opportunity to propose solutions

Communication Script:

“We’ve noticed some discrepancies between our grant agreement and how funds were used. Can you help us understand what happened and work together on a path forward?”

Be patient, travel to them if need be, hire an interpreter. Avoid confrontation or aggression.

STEP 5: Evaluate Response Options

Option A: Corrective Action

  • Grantee acknowledges issue and proposes correction
  • Funds can be redirected to proper use
  • Enhanced monitoring for future grants
  • Document agreement in writing

Option B: Waiver and Blessing

If a grantee misused grant funds but still furthered charitable purposes, a funder may waive its rights to a return of funds and “bless” the new use.

  • Require written justification for change
  • Document decision-making process
  • Consider implications for future grants

Option C: Fund Recovery

Grant agreements should address what happens in case of misused funds, typically requiring the return of misspent funds to the funder.

  • Request return of misspent funds
  • May require grantee to use unrestricted funds
  • Consider payment plan if immediate return impossible

Phase 3: Implementation and Documentation

Days 46-90

STEP 6: Execute Chosen Resolution

  • Implement agreed-upon corrective action
  • Monitor compliance with new arrangements
  • Update internal records and processes
  • Communicate with stakeholders as appropriate

STEP 7: Learn and Improve

  • Conduct post-incident review
  • Update grant agreements and monitoring procedures
  • Share lessons learned with team
  • Consider implications for trust-based approach

Balancing Trust and Accountability: Best Practices

The “Trust but Verify” Approach

Trust and accountability are two sides of the same coin. You can’t have one without the other. Effective trust-based philanthropy includes:

1. Clear Expectations Upfront

  • Define outcomes and impact metrics collaboratively
  • Establish regular check-in schedules
  • Create shared understanding of grant purpose
  • Build reporting requirements together

2. Relationship-Based Monitoring

  • Regular informal conversations about progress
  • Site visits when appropriate and welcome
  • Quarterly or semi-annual structured updates
  • Focus on learning and problem-solving together

3. Early Warning Systems

  • Financial dashboard indicators
  • Organizational health assessments
  • External environment monitoring
  • Peer and community feedback

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